Millions of older people use the internet every day to stay in touch, arrange travel, shop and follow their interests. Online dating is simply another way to make an introduction.
Make your profile sound like you
Choose a recent photograph and write a few warm, specific details. “I enjoy coastal walks, live music and trying new restaurants” says far more than “I like going out”.
Start with a short message
You do not need a perfect opening line. Mention something from the other person’s profile and ask an easy question. A natural conversation is more important than a clever introduction.
Keep personal details private at first
Use the dating service’s messaging system while you get acquainted. Do not share financial information, passwords or identity documents, and be cautious if anyone quickly asks for money or invents an emergency.
Move at your own pace
There is no timetable. If you choose to meet, arrange a busy public place, tell a friend where you are going and keep control of your own journey home.