Keep money out of a new relationship
Never send money, buy gift cards, transfer cryptocurrency or share banking access with someone you have met through a dating service. A dramatic emergency or a promise to repay you does not make the request safer.
Protect your personal information
Do not share passwords, one-time security codes, identity documents or your full financial details. Keep early conversations within the dating service and avoid revealing your home address too soon.
Notice pressure and inconsistency
Be cautious when someone declares strong feelings unusually quickly, avoids video or telephone calls, gives changing stories, or repeatedly makes excuses not to meet. Trust your judgement and step away if something feels wrong.
Plan a safer first meeting
- Meet in a busy public place.
- Tell a friend or relative where you will be.
- Arrange your own transport.
- Keep your phone charged.
- Leave whenever you wish.
Report concerns
Use blocking and reporting tools if another member behaves inappropriately or makes you uncomfortable. If you believe a crime has occurred or you are in immediate danger, contact the police.