There is no single correct way to begin dating later in life. You may be newly single, widowed, divorced or simply ready to widen your social circle. The important thing is to move at a pace that feels comfortable.
Look beyond the photograph
A useful profile describes everyday interests, outlook and the sort of relationship somebody hopes to find. Those details often provide a better starting point than appearance alone and make a first message easier to write.
Begin with a natural conversation
You do not need an impressive opening line. Mention an interest from the other person’s profile, ask a genuine question and allow the conversation to develop gradually. Our dating questions page includes examples and practical advice.
A wider network of members
Wise Owl Dating participates in a shared general dating network. This can give members a broader choice of relevant people to meet, and it means a profile may also be shown to suitable members using another participating site.
Stay in control
Decide what personal information to share, use blocking and reporting tools when necessary and never feel obliged to continue a conversation. A respectful person will understand your boundaries.